When it comes right down to it, grooming is ground work. As with every other aspect of training, it should focus on helping your horse feel calmer and more relaxed whenever he is with you. Too often though, grooming is done quickly, without paying any real attention to the horse. By changing how you look at grooming, you can help your horse develop more trust, be more relaxed and become more cooperative.

Grooming sessions can also simulate the natural behaviour of horses, where strong bonds are formed between those who mutually groom each other. This behaviour reduces social anxiety, as the bonded horses have developed enough mutual trust to relax their personal space boundaries knowing there is no threat to their safety. You can create a similar bond with your horse through sensitive grooming practices.

Your horse’s frame of body and his behaviour tell you exactly how he is feeling mentally. His frame of body equals his frame of mind and his behaviour is his communication. So, if your horse is dancing in the cross-ties, trying to bite you or stepping into your space, he is not simply being “rude.” These behaviours are symptoms of his anxiety, fear or resentment toward what is happening. If your horse stands quietly, but stoically without blinking or responding to you, he is shut down and is tuned out. If your horse stands calmly and relaxed, aware of what is going on around him and also paying attention to you, quality bonding time is happening.

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